Fred's Blog
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A Fool’s Counsel
There are two kinds of fools in the world. One is the Biblical fool who is best described as a person with no self-control. He is "a larger child" governed by the impulse of the passing moment and with no ability to rule his tongue emotions pleasures or thoughts. He is stupid and self-conceited and with no ability to see himself as he is ” he rushes to his own destruction hardly thinking at all about what awaits him. Grady Wilson was a childhood friend of Billy Graham and for 30 years he was perhaps his closest associate and confidant. He was also the one person who could let…
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Finishing My Father's Journey
Steve Martin is known most widely for his early work in absurd comedy but he has also evolved into a serious art collector playwright and fine writer. In his memoir, “Born Standing Up” he recounts the death of his father. Growing up in Waco, Texas, Steve remembers his feelings toward his father as “mostly ones of hatred” as his father was cold and stern. He was critical of Steve’s career. and their relationship was awkward at best: “In his early 80s my father’s health declined further and he became bedridden. There must be an instinct about when the end is near as we all found ourselves gathered at my parents’home in…
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Finishing My Father’s Journey
Steve Martin is known most widely for his early work in absurd comedy but he has also evolved into a serious art collector playwright and fine writer. In his memoir, “Born Standing Up” he recounts the death of his father. Growing up in Waco, Texas, Steve remembers his feelings toward his father as “mostly ones of hatred” as his father was cold and stern. He was critical of Steve’s career. and their relationship was awkward at best: “In his early 80s my father’s health declined further and he became bedridden. There must be an instinct about when the end is near as we all found ourselves gathered at my parents’home in…
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Follow the Money
Studies and predictions about the transfer of wealth from parents to their children started popping up around the turn of the century. In their 1999 study, “The Millionaires and the Millennium: New Estimates of the Forthcoming Wealth Transfer and the Prospects for a Golden Age of Philanthropy,” Paul Schervish and John Havens at the Center on Wealth and Philanthropy at Boston College had financial planners scurrying to prepare investment plans to accommodate an estimated $41 trillion that would be passed over 50 years. For the next several years, investment firms rolled out products that would absorb the wave of assets. I heard about “pre-mortem” consultants hired by children to negotiate…
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Jonah
Michael Gerson mentioned on Facebook this week that he is re-reading Graham Greene’s “The Power and The Glory.” It’s the story of a failed priest on the run from the police. He is friendless, homeless and searching for some sense of purpose in his life. Hiding from his calling and decisions he has made in the past he is ironically incapable of not being a priest and ministering to people – even at the risk of his life. Tormented by his own sense of guilt he spends the whole of the novel both in flight and in pursuit. It is so much like the life of Jonah. I don’t know if…
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Some Things Never Change
Last month the latest report by the Johnson Center on Millennial Giving (http://www.nextgendonors.org/) was released and is both interesting and helpful. However while there are clearly significant differences in the generations ” I think it is a mistake to assume that generational differences are the most important or determinative in describing donors. There are too many other factors. While the book was written for development professionals ” the insights are invaluable in helping gain a better understanding of your own giving as a donor and how to be more effective in your own unique style. Doing Good Makes Sense. Communitarians give because it makes good sense to do so.…
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Your Cheating Heart
Two nights ago I posted an article on Christian music that included this quote from Joe Bob Briggs: "Christian music is bad songs written about God by white people." My friend Steven Garber at the Washington Institute messaged me back with a piece he Steve Turner and Charlie Peacock had done at the Art House in Nashville. It began with the question “Can you sing songs shaped by the truest truths of the universe ” but in a language that the whole world can understand?” In the course of our back and forth” Steven passed along this observation from writer Walker Percy "Bad books always lie. They lie most…
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The Inconvenient Elder
There has probably never been a time like today in our country for both the creation of wealth and non-profits and social entrepreneurs.We sometimes think this trend is new but it is an ancient pattern.Often you see this pattern go together “and at other times one follows the other. One of the reasons for the founding of monastic communities was that a generation of young people was turning away from the excesses of their wealthy parents.During the 12th and early 13th centuries there was something of an explosion of both wealth and the formation of informal orders within the Catholic Church. One of those” the Franciscans grew and spread…
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Is Justice Just a Fad?
This should probably be a letter to the editor of the Huffington Post or maybe a comment on the article by this same title written by Ken Wytsma this week. Ken is the president of Kilns College in Bend Ore. ” where he teaches courses on philosophy and justice. He is also the founder of The Justice Conference—an annual international conference that began in 2010 with a few hundred participants and will have several thousand attending in Philadelphia this year. It's not the only conference focused on the topic of justice” but it is one of the best examples of the momentum the issue of justice has reached. The…
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The Tin Man
I’ve never followed the career of Lance Armstrong but for some reason decided to watch his sessions with Oprah this past week. What I saw was disturbing: arrogance pride narcissism deceit betrayal out-of-control desire to win bullying disloyalty ” disgrace and the emotional disconnect required to isolate himself from the guilt of his own judgments. Yes” there was remorse and the realization of what he had done but it has still not become sin for him. He used words like “sick” and “flawed” when the one word he needs to understand is “sin.” But there is nothing in his background that would lead him to that ” and I…