A friend made a large donation to help a new organization get started. The founder was an acquaintance and not only persuasive but passionate about the new organization being able to meet a social need not being addressed in the community. The venture failed within two years and ended badly for everyone. I told him he had paid his “dumb tax” on giving. We all pay it either early on – like him – or later. It always comes when we venture into areas about which we know very little and, typically, with people we do not know well. The tax tends to decrease with experience but I’ve paid it…

While I would not say I have been Scrooge, I have come close. In fact, the whole period between Thanksgiving and the end of the year has always seemed like an unnecessary drag on productivity. More Prevent than Advent as people don’t return phone calls or start new projects. Christmas puts everything on hold. People go on vacation or leave early to shop and spend time with visiting family. I know part of it can be traced back to my own family growing up…but I have to admit while I have changed any number of things I learned growing up, I have kept my Scrooge-like attitude toward Christmas. Well, that…

If you read biographies, you notice a recurring pattern in the lives of many great leaders: early success followed by years of obscurity and hardship – even rejection and exile Child stars and prodigies often experience the same. Writers and artists may show promise and then languish for decades before creating anything again. One-hit wonders are common in music, as are novelists who cannot produce a second best-seller. Sometimes circumstances change beyond their control. Silent movie star Rudolph Valentino’s voice was not suitable for movies with sound. Yasha Heifitz was brilliant as an untaught prodigy but being taught how to read music ruined him for years. Marlon Brando had been in a 10-year…

A.S. Neill was the iconoclast founder of the Summerhill School in England. His educational philosophy of allowing children to pursue their own interests free from the interference of artificial standards, adult experts and the use of “teaching through fear” gave him both accolades and scorn. Neill himself, while a poor student, became one of the most influential (and controversial) educators of his time. He believed that the best teachers could do was leave children alone to develop naturally. All children, he contended, have an innate desire to become adults and that is not possible with a teacher or adult hovering over them attempting to teach them lessons or tell them…

We love dreamers and visionaries. We revere the people who never, ever, ever give up but persevere and despite all the obstacles manage to turn that dream into reality. There could not be a better time in history for people like this. Dream. Run with it. Make it happen. But, in the words of the poet Langston Hughes, what happens to a dream that languishes for decades? What happens to a dream deferred? Does it dry up like a raisin in the sun? Still Strong Those words reminded me of the stillborn dream of Caleb in the Old Testament. There is no better example of an ambitious and determined dreamer. Most often we…

He sat down, paused before he spoke and then said, “It’s too much for me to give thanks. I cannot be thankful for this.  I will never be thankful for this.” He and his wife had lost their son and someone with the best intentions had quoted Paul’s instructions to the church in Thessalonika, “Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” Then was not the time to say, “Paul did not say be thankful for everything – but thankful in everything.”  Yet, that is what I thought about for days afterwards.  Paul says, literally, eucharisteo, in everything and in every…